There Goes the Bride If your engagement ring pinches your finger, or the thought of eating tiered vanilla cake makes you sick, you're not alone. Two weeks before her wedding day, Rachel Safier went over to her fiancé's house and called the whole thing off. We're not sure what she did next, but sometime after canceling the musicians and returning the gifts, she sat down and wrote a resource guide for nearly-weds called There Goes the Bride. This companion site extends the consolation to women and men everywhere who suffer from "cold feet or broken engagements." A list of 10 non-negotiable points offers guidance for those who have come down with a nasty case of the jitters. Almost-brides (or -grooms) will also find suggested breakup movies to watch, idiot quotes to exclaim over (what are people thinking?), and forums with others who fled the altar. (in Society & Culture)